But I have a son who was looking up to him. This is the only way to defend himself or apologize. So, I got pissed and send him many messages that were saying how much he hurt me by doing that but I was definitely a bit hysterical lol because on top of being a Cancer, I was starting to pms. I have been talking to a Scorpio man online for 4 years. Hopefully you've been having a fine old time lately. When we met in person, sparks flew. If he still doesn't answer, he isn't worth your time anyway. So when he is thinking about you, it is all about you. He just needs more time , to make a palace for future . I know I hurt him and I regret and I said that. I just recently started dating a Scorpio man, and I am a Capricorn woman. And he can be pretty obvious about it, too. we dont live in the same roof but always exerting effort to see me even if he is not feeling well. Hi all, i need an advice please about my scorpio man, we were fine for almost 2 months and then i had a strange feeling he was dating someone else. No hidden but an honest clear answer and I like this very much. What it takes to keep a Scorpio man interested largely depends on where he's at in development as an individual. KrisNick09 (author) from Kentucky on July 25, 2012: Thank you for your comments, angel115707! I am freaking crazy about this guy. 1. We had plans for a few months ahead too. Do I give him space and let him sort it out? Travel. When a Scorpio feels something, their feelings Run deep and it seems really difficult for them to open up at first. Or he will suddenly have an "issue" where life seems overwhelming. Show her you are passionate and not superficial in your attitude. There is nothing I don't love about this man. Ask him if I'm going to see him again said he will be busy for nest 5 weeks. our conversation was okay and we decided to meet up after i finished my final examination. He did not talk to me at all . But my question is will he come back to me? Have a Beautiful Daughter to the last of the 3 Loves. He doesn't reach out and he doesn't reply when you contact him. I need Dr. but sometimes he shuts me out of his life for at least 3 or 4 days. Lastly, no one can love a person who doesnt truly love themselves , and if you truly love yourself you will know how and on whom to spend your precious hours, reserve your emotions to your girlfriends , get to know a boy for who he really is before pouring your feelings out to him and feeling vulnerable. I haven't acted clingy at all, and I don't plan on doing so at any point. If you notice the Scorpio guy getting possessive about you, be sure that he is in love with you. How much i showed my love to him , he got more silence . I met my Scorpio man in an online dating site on three weeks later and we fell in love within a few weeks into 2014. Love him anyway. And then. I am a pisces. When they get into something, they really go for it. They have to so that they don't feel guilty about retaliating. And our conversation end with quarrel. I forgot to mention that he's really not good at communicating anything. We were getting on great and we were talking about getting married and out of nowhere he went cold turkey on me. I dont know what to do? Tell him how you feel. Not responding to my texts . demanding, all this good Things a Guy should have . He finally texted me this morning, I was starting to wonder if he was doing the #5 thing! Yes, this is a scorpio, who claims to be in a homosexual relationship yet he's this possessive and jealous of me. I'm so lost please help. Would appreciate your advice. Even ignoring a mutual friend. help, This does help about Scorpios!! This goes on for a while until you take the unfortunate hint. I hope I helped!! When he's sad, he often feels deeply and intensely. Then I said I understand , you already made up your mind. We have had a serious connection and am amazing attraction together. Strong, handsome, great personality, warm, kind, friendly, funny, etc. Genuine Confusion Scorpio men are emotional guys. He's amazing, caring, funny.. Just wonderful but when he is upset, he goes off the grid. He doesn't deserve it. So when he's busy "in the zone"; he may not be thinking of you at that time. Scorpio Detests Lying If you lie to your Scorpio lover, he will know it. I don't know if he still likes me. 10. At first, I was like omg what did I do wrong and then scorp man let it be known that everything is fine. does he has no respect for me as a human being? Like I said its better to move on now because he has. There is no one to compare with the Scorpio man. But about the roller coaster deals we will always love u and sometimes we don't mean to hurt your feelings. The best advice I can give here is to communicate. Ignore him, he will retalia I think the act of distancing himself is more painful than you realize and it probably takes extreme will to stay away. He is an emotional guy so ignoring him would only get him angry. He is so kind and thoughtful; brutally honest and very open when he is not withdrawn. I was in a Bad Relationship which has been pretty done soon or later and i thought it would be good to get out of the House and so see the Bugs Band. Here are ten tell-tale signs that your Scorpio man's feelings around the relationship are changing: 1. Scorpio is the most emotionally vulnerable sign, yet when they put up their defences, no one can damage them. Him and I were only in a friend's with benefits thing for over a year. Give each other space. Also do you think he will come back? how is the best way to respond to text or call after they have been distancing themselves and a little cold. and i just okay with it although a bit disappointing. Then we didn't talk much about what happened except I had asked him if he's testing me subconsciously and he said that maybe but he's not sure. Scorp men take tend to take it to heart when you go to other people especially guy friends for advice. I have determined that a Scorpio's withdrawal usually has one of five causes (though there may be more I have not yet discovered): He is in a situation that he has mixed emotions about and is acting distant until he sorts it out in his heart. If I ask him to be with me he says let's end this as I m too demanding and impatient . We're both 15, and we've both admitted we "like each other". Said we must become friends b4 lovers. We both have kids. 2. When your Scorpio man displays his disappearing acts, it may be due to many factors - there's a possibility you upset him, but he can get stressed because of other external things. He finally said "LEAVE ME ALONE, I DID THIS EASY AND CLEAN" Stop calling stop texting. They will care about you if your part of that inner circle. I really love him and I want to try again where I dont hurt him anymore. it don't take just a few seconds to text someone and say good morning and how is your day. THE DAY HIKARI DISAPPEARS!THE DAY, WE SEARCH UNTIL TOMMROW!FAREWELL, TSURUGI . It was a little confusing but I don't take what people say to heart. There will be times when he's somewhere in between extremes, but it happens less frequently than with other signs. Taurus in love with scorp on December 05, 2018: He is giving me silent treatment for over than one year. We pick up where we left off. I feel he did this because he was hurt because I shared my problems with others instead of going to him, I know he cares for me? Being with my Scorpio is like riding a roller coaster.everything feels picture perfect up until. So I recently met a scorpio and we instantly had a spiritual, physical and emotional connection. Im totally confused coz he's giving me mixed signals. In other words, he is creating space in preparation to leave. When he opens up and tells you his secrets, it's one of the signs that a Scorpio man has feelings for you. My boyfriend is a scorpio and I'm libra. I just told him I was over the whole thing and we havent spoken since. She may give you a clear sign right away that she likes you and you are the perfect man, and may not look directly at you when you are together. But I emailed him many times apologizing to him and saying that I loved him and asking him to forgive me but I did not get even one word back. Again, anyone going through all of this nonsense, move on. then his txts are so short without endearment. I am completely shocked by all of the responses. I have a way with words as being a Gemini and I am willing to sacrifice some of my freedom to be with this Scorpio. I cant figure out whats going on. Scorpios along with being secretive, mysterious, sensuous and what not are very emotional. It sounds like you are very concerned about pressuring him/scaring him away. As you may already know, guys born under any of the water signs tend to be more emotional than men born under any other sign! They constantly test you. Sorry to be so gruesome but if you cannot handle the heat stay out of the kitchen. Their element is water, meaning they navigate the world through their emotions. I think we just do it meaning the love stuff because we love you so much but we get scared to tell you that because we don't know if you really love us too?? This approach may work for some signs, but on a Gemini man, it will have the opposite of the desired effect. She may stare across the room or look away when your eyes meet on your first date. My Scorpio and I have been dating 3 1/2 months. i met this scorpio guy age 32 online. when he shuts down on me and not text me after all I do for him it hurts my feelings and I do talk to him about it but he does not let me know what is going on the reason why he does this. To all scorpio man out there, could you please explain why is it really hard for you to express your feelings with the one whom you feel somewhat special to you? Yes we take our time doesn't mean we don't care we just need assurance that we won't expose ourselves for being hurt in return. other from the real issue.ALWAYS. A Pisces is always a thunderstorm of emotions and they can be quite self-destructive when they're angry. Betrayal can consume me as much as love can. Well not all the things they say about scorpio men are accurate. Then he explained everything and I was fine. And yes, Scorpio women are quite similar to us Scorpio men in many things. From my experience (both as a Scorpio and as someone who has dated several Scorpio men), I'm going to explain their peculiar behavior as best as I can. They wait until they feel they have sufficient justification and then lash out. It is so tough to leave him alone when he is in a funk but I hve 2 give him space or he will disappear. I had the same issue with a scorpio we met 1 year ago this month.everything was fine then he stopped calling and responding to me..this went on for 8 months then he texts me out if the blue. There are plenty of respectful, loyal, and honest folks born in Scorpio season, just as with any other sign. I really think it's the arrogance and a Scorpio. When a Scorpio man takes you in completely as in loving you you ultimately become their possession until you betray them. NEVER believe what people tell you, let them show you. Instant connection, we see each other daily, even talk about our future. Or a few months. They are a little different . He snoring very loud, don't tell him this omg, he sticks his Head up his Tube to not be heard..lol and he refuses to stay over Night cause of this. We'll cover: Scorpio is a fixed, feminine, water sign. I woke up the next day with him just going off his nut and blocking me on his facebok. Boyfriend lives in Arizona so communication is a big problem but we do get together on occasion and it is spectacular. He texted the next day a long paragraph why I demonstrate no communication by not texting back and that he wasn't mad at me that day etc Then I gave him a long paragraph explanation reply. They are emotional people and express the emotion either openly or keep them buried depending on whether they trust you. Part of me was over the moon with joy, but another part of me wanted to yell at him! Both times we have broken up it was under false pretenses. Why would you wait around for this unstable twit to decide how he's going to yo yo again and how long you'll take it? If he tells you he likes or lives you and then disappears, find someone else! 4 Water Signs (Cancer, Scorpio, Pisces): Very In Touch With Their Emotions, It Will Be Obvious When He's Not Interested. Suddenly it seems like he can't talk to me Like he's not allowed. We never added each other on Facebook but only snapchat cause he likes snapchat a lot. Complex for sure, but no more so than any other sign. He could have met you while he was looking for someone to have fun with, but you turned out to be the wrong person for him. Your plan will not work if he pays no attention . so yeah.. is he playing. Sarah, he might come back, depending if he loves you and realizes he made a mistake. We haven't talked to each other much since. There are no gentle touches. A Scorpio man in love will want to share his thoughts and feelings with you, and he will be more willing to talk about the relationship. Magnitudes of a difference between each stage. It shows his deep love . In other words, if you can't tell which of the first four reasons is the reason he has withdrawn, then you really don't know each other well enough for him to play mind games and expect you to sort it out. You are theirs alone and nobody else's therefore, you can only share your personal feelings or opinions with him. When alone, he may choose to focus his energy on something that builds up his self-esteem. We were walking one day and he asked about my stress etc..I made the mistake of telling him how I got my feelings hurt about christmas, but was fine after he explained himself , I also explained that because of the stress I had caused him before I didnt want to share all the work stress I had had so I have been talking to a couple of other friends (guy friends) he shut down. I tried to talk to him and I told him that I was asleepI thought he would have realized that I've never ever ignored himhe knows I would never do that. How can u fall in Love with somebody else when u still be living with her. Ive been crazy about a Scorpio since the day we first met. Cancer in love is shy, responsive, and empathic. Go figure. Me and Scorpio make broke up after being together for 2 years. It will only tell this Scorpio man or woman that you are too close, to begin with. 2. So I have. Then he blocked me! he disappeared but after some time he texted me saying 'I'm sorting my thoughts out because this feels brutal and chaotic' which sounded so childish to me. we count on a lot of texts and phone calls to keep the relationship going. So that brought back memories.. I have no idea what happened with my scorpio male.he just suddenly changed. I am always in doubt about our relationship longevity. He's quite private though. I went crazy over him, and he seemed to go crazy over me too, and even wanted to make plans for the next meetup before even leaving each other. We were great in the beginning and then slowly, he started to withdraw from me. Again, as a Capricorn I am secretive and I didnt want it to be something all of our acquaintances knew about. Now he says he loves me but it's not the same as it was. Do you think he's just insecure about me leaving him first? Ha,nice Guy. I think Scorpios are very complex people. I reciprocate but I don't take things to heart. I have a huge problem I was dating my best friend who is a Scorpio and he was such an amazing man. He is in a situation that he has mixed emotions about and is acting distant until he sorts it out in his heart. If he is a fit for you, your Scorpio will be upset that you are upset. They would tell me they'd see me and try to say hi but I wouldn't notice them. I have determined that a Scorpio's withdrawal usually has one of five causes (though there may be more I have not yet discovered): 1. Should I give him his space to think? The feeling of hurt remains etched in their memory. The messages he sent me were slaughtering and he even threatened to put our rude conversations all over Facebook. I asked my scorpio guy if what he's feeling towards me and he said he doesn't know. He came way strong and even texted to me that he could see being married to me. He wants all your thoughts to be about him, even if he wont admit to it or consider you 'sticky'he derives deep pleasure form the mere idea that he may be dominating all of your thoughts. We met 3 Years ago at my Clients Home, i was working there. What do I do with this friendship???!:((. If a person born with this sun sign is taking the time to look after you or getting involved with your problems, then you are part of their inner circle. 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