Trust me, I know. I saw the texts. I occasionally meet up with a male friend who I have known for 23 yrs, we dated when we were 15 and our brothers are all friends. While they can be highly effective in reducing pain, they also come with a high risk of addiction and overdose. my mother knows the story and all she says is ''I told you not to marry that women'' Im not one for pubs and bars, if she doesn't want to listen to me I'll just take it that she has fallen out of love with me and fill for divorce the light at the end of the tunnel in this situation is that we don't have kids. Now, I do find the times off, but I guess that comes with nightshifts. brokenangel1, August 19, 2014 in General Relationship Discussion, My wife has worked with these two male co-workers for few years. 5. But to divorce someone over it? Christmas he doesnt want to spend it with me or nye. that there is something more to this. When I met my husband, he had a good friend at work, a single girl, who is EXTREMELY flirtatious, and at least a little annoying. Epstein says that in her personal experience, mixed-gender drinking situations easily cross become sexual for women, in ways that don't necessarily affect men. Part of me says "She your wife and should NOT be out drinking with guys, my mother knows the story and all she says is ''I told you not to marry that women'' Im not one for pubs and bars, if she doesn't want to listen to me I'll just take it that she has fallen out of love with me and fill for divorce. Will this be a Red Flag for her? Usually guys will start going to the bar alone if they are starting to build up the guts to cheat. It was just friendly (although he was flattering about the way I look and he is clearly an attractive man) BUT I am not interested in any other way than friends. My husband worked with this women but she recently got a different job. So why did I tell him we could talk after he got divorced? What are some red flags to notice that would indicate that someone is subtly setting up a situation, emotionally or physically, so that an affair could happen more easily? . Married men don't tend to tell unless you see their wedding band and bisexuals are everywhere. I tried being super honest with her saying "I guess I don't like my wife out drinking with guys I dont know, without me" and asked her how she would feel if I went out getting smashed with two female co-wrkers from work for 7 hours without her. I never been out with another people while I was married.If I went some where there was my husband always by the way I am not a drinking woman so I have less experiences about bars and drinking. Please don't. If your girlfriend does have a few drinks, she will naturally become more open to the idea of talking to random guys. reader, loony89+, writes (12 September 2013): A Style & Beauty Food & Drink Parenting Travel Wellness Relationships Money Home & Living Work/Life Shopping. You might joke about things related to the office, or talk in groups of other people with them, but you don't spend much one on one time with them. It sucked. And from the sound of it, your mom was just waiting for an excuse to say "I told you so". When is it OK to be by yourself with another persons spouse? Lol well actually, my girlfriend was married when I met her. My heart, however, says I would go completely nuts if this was my DH. I guess it is also about the venue and location. ENA posted a blog entry in Articles, Tuesday at 12:58 PM, ENA posted a blog entry in Articles, Tuesday at 01:01 PM, ENA posted a blog entry in Articles, Tuesday at 01:04 PM, ENA posted a blog entry in Articles, Monday at 07:16 PM, ENA posted a blog entry in Articles, Monday at 07:24 PM, ENA posted a blog entry in Articles, Monday at 07:29 PM, By And to be honest, if you want to succeed in business (and not by having sex with the higher ups), then you need to behave professionally in all circumstances and not flirt. Dan Bacon is a relationship expert and is happily married. Communication is very important and a lot of things can go wrong without it. Didn't seek out any meaningful relationships for three solid years after figuring out the truth, was so disenchanted with the whole system. Chill out, Bill! We had a great time. I had nothing to hide so DH was invited along to every get together. If youd like to join in, please sign in or register. This is a good response as to how to "hang out" with married guy friends if you have concerns. If peole don't want to cheat they won't cheat even if they are alone with a business colleague. I dont think you have the right to tell him he can't! I told him we could talk after he got divorced. We and our partners use cookies to Store and/or access information on a device. That part sounds especially shady to me. What is she doing, what is he doing going for drinks, going back to his office, why are they in a car together?" Good point. Parents don't belong in arguments between married couples. Last week I was on a business trip with two of my managers, one of whom is a lady. If your spouse is found having group lunch meetings or individual lunches that strictly pertain to work, then that's a different story. Continue with Recommended Cookies. Maybe that is just a male perspective. If you practice the philosophy that you don't put yourself in compromising positions alone with them (especially involving partying alone or drinking with them), and don't engage in flirting and personal email/IM messaging, you will avoid most of the problems. i have male friends who are married. Not Taking Responsibility. Little did they imagine how quickly 25 years would pass and that today, they'd have four children, two of them old enough to read Boundless for themselves. So, could any of you with more knowledge and experience please enlighten me (and hopefully others)? He'd call me at home or try to get me alone with him "just to talk", and it was really hard to constantly tell him I didn't believe in having affairs, including emotional affairs. If so then there is an underlining problem and may come down to different lifestyle problems, other relationship issues or alcohol problems. I think he was flattered with the attention. . I was out for drinks the other night with someone quite senior to me who was married. Yes, this includes more than just our parents - it includes other women as well. But something in my gut told me he was acting inappropriately, and sure enough he never got divorced. A woman with two kids told me that the idea of her husband spending precious free time away from the family with anyonefemale or male, sexually compatible or notwho wasnt a longtime friend would make her jealous. My head says that it is just a friendship, and that it is unreasonable to ban friendships. But my friend raised the stakes by proposing similar hypothetical situations that werent as easy to dismiss. Thanks xx Know I've got to broach this subject tonight before he goes away on business. I feel very vulnerable because I'm single. He is draining the life from your relationship by doing this. Your feelings should be paramount. are there any red flags you've noticed with married women trying to hit on. I agree. I think the key to understanding this is recognizing that married men who love their wives and don't want to cheat don't spend a lot of time socializing with single women, whether that is chatting them up, going to lunch/dinner alone with them, calling them on the phone or engaging in a lot of email or IM that doesn't also include their wives in the socializing. What you feel is not unfair it completely acceptable. Manage Settings I was in the worst shape of my life, was working long hours, not in a good state of mind, and suddenly BOOM, 5 different married women and one engaged one wanting a piece of my fat ass. It's definitely fine, if she was single. Sorry hun, but alarm bells would be going off in my head :( You need to tell your husband how much this affecting you and that you either want to meet her, or you want him to end the "friendship" (and I would hardly call it worthwhile friendship if he doesn't even want his friend to meet the most important person in his life!). She seems to think that there is absolutely NOTHING wrong with going out with her two male co-workers (both of them are in relationships btw) and getting smashed for 8 hours without me there. It was the other way around. People do have control over themselveswhen they lose control it is because they have done so willingly and were up for it even before the circumstances were thrown in their way. We had different work schedules and it created an uncomfortable dynamic in that sense. Am I way off base for getting mad about this? She is married so to me it was just lunch and nothing else. To what kind of husband would that be ok? "Met at a firm conference. Started November 16, 2022, I'm constantly worried about doing inappropriate things that may inadvertently signal to a married man that I'm open to an affair. Candice Watters is the author of Get Married: What Women Can Do to Help it Happen, and co-author with her husband, Steve, of Start Your Family: Inspiration for Having Babies.Together they created Boundless in 1998. For me, it was her attitude that was the reason I automatically thought this relationship has a use by date. One night drinking and playing Magic? YOU should come first. NO WAY I get off work at 2 am and am gonna go drinking much less with male coworkers if I'm a married woman and my husband is at home. I feel bad for you for beating on yourself for something that was beyond your control. It is improper for you to go out with a man you have not committed yourself to. January 10, 2015 12:01am. You can let him know you don't like it but thats about it. How would he react if you behaved like this? What sort of overlap in schedules does the. Of course, no relationship between two people is ever quite the same as any other. - www.netfly.tv ,. You're right, her actions can be explained away, excused. No, it's not fine. OP, it isn't ok. That's nuts! I'm constantly worried about doing inappropriate things that may inadvertently signal to a married man that I'm open to an affair when that's the farthest thing from my mind. It's helped me a lot and I hope others as well. And if for some reason time got away from me I'd call or text my husband so he wouldn't worry. Jay Casey, a 34-year-old production assistant, considers himself a pretty regular drinker on any given night, he estimates he might have five drinks . I text her saying "I woke up and my wife is still not home after 6 hours.".and that "I could understand a couple drinks for an hour or so but for 6 hours..?" I can see a good gentleman in you. As a woman I cannot accept it. 1000Lb Sisters star Amy Slaton has split from her husband, Michael Halterman, it has been claimed. Based on when she got off work, you can't look at the hours of the day because her 2:00 a.m. is other people's 5:00 o'clock. Her getting angry, apologies, love and back around again? After I got married I still spent Monday nights out, still would occasionally go to a friends place or the bar. you don't need to experience a ton of relationships to get to know acts from a woman because you learn ton of things from one single woman. My entire career I've gone out with guys alone, even on business trips, and I've never had a married coworker hit on me or do anything inappropriate. Bills tone, per my friend, conveyed indignation that such an insulting possibility had even been considered. He's wearing a ring. Even my mother and friends encouraged me to consider a relationship with this man if he got divorced! in a tone like asking "is it really a big deal?" Have there been infidelity/trust issues in the past? the wife of someone who was becoming too close to a work colleague and going out for drinks after work and even one dinner (!) A yellow flag in my mind. Several said theyd be uncomfortable if their spouse or partner engaged in certain interactions without them and/or felt their spouses might not be happy with them if they did the same. The odd man (married or unmarried) may hit on you. The three of us went out to dinner the first night - no problem. What's open at 2AM?.but even if there are places open, nothing good happens at that time anyway. I guess my question is, keeping in mind this is the first time this has happened, are my sensibilities incorrect? I work with a lot of males, and we go out drinking from time to time. reply #4 James 9 years ago She has known him for around 2.5 years. They are pleasant to one another, but they don't make close friends or engage in heavy flirtation with people they work with. The biggest red flag was when they would start up conversations about their home life, seemingly innocuously. It's possible that he'll get upset when you tell him the truth. Avoid trying to compete with his partner. 15. 1. My wife and B seem to be constantly attached by the hip. Thanks Ren, that was sweet of you to say. female It can feel like a never-ending cycle of disappointment and rejection, leaving you wondering if you'll ever find a meaningful connection. There's so many ways to do this: go out with some girlfriends, jump on some dating apps, or sign up for a blind date. The horror. If someone starts sending you flirty email/IM, then don't play. Your husband has a choice to stay at the bar to entertain this single young lady or go home with his wife. He Compliments You A Lot. It is this secrecy about her that makes me feel uncomfortable on your behalf? female Mike wasn't the only married man I'd been involved with. It eventually drove me crazy when guys would invite me over for something innocuous like beer and board games and I'd have to turn the invite down because I was "due home" to spend time with the ex. I think the key to understanding this is recognizing that married men who love their wives and don't want to cheat don't spend a lot of time socializing with single women, whether that is chatting them up, going to lunch/dinner alone with them, calling them on the phone or engaging in a lot of email or IM that doesn't also include their wives in But even if for some reason I did this, I'd plan to stay out for an hour. Whether it's an addiction, an affair, or poor performance in your life, many times, husbands point to their wives as the reason for their weakness. As a married man with a career, he's likely quite busy - and that's even more true if he has kids. He plays like it's a middle school. So she rushes home and yells at me asking what my problem is and that it was a **** move texting her making her feel like a ****ty person and wife. I agree with missali that it sounds as if he likes the attention and it's almost as if he wants you to feel jealous? The Supreme Courts 2003 Lawrence v. Texas decision legalized all consensual sex between adults. Not calling to leave a message was inconsiderate. Okay, big duh. It is a new kind of civil war between women that is going on while the. adultery prosecutions became increasingly unheard of. DepressedHusband. The kids are the biggest thing though. male My husband likes to have a beer or two so he does go to the local dive bars with the guys after work. And several people copped to knowing that they wouldnt be worried about their partners time with another man/woman if the interloper in question was notably unattractive. Its up to us, as always, to keep each other happy by working out the rules on our own. He will keep hinting at the fact that you are the type of girl he likes and that you two have a lot in common. L143myself It doesn't really matter what their motivation is, it is your actions that will control whether it goes further. reader, Honeypie+, writes (12 September 2013): Already have an account? reader, SeattleWill+, writes (15 October 2019): A Feeling down or depressed is a common experience for many people at some point in their lives. Done it dozens of times..I worked in an industry and at a level was male dominated. Partying all night with other men is a boundary you should have let her know she can't cross. The length of this visit merits a calm discussion to assure the behavior isn't repeated routinely. Register in under one minute and get your own agony aunt column - recommended! Waiting outside the bar for your friends is also weird. If that idea makes them uncomfortable, then demand to know why. yes as a gay man i have single and attached gay mates that i manage to go for drinks with and not end up shagging so i dont see a issue. i certainly don't lead them on, or but i may joke around with them - in the same way i would even joke around with a female friend or an unmarried male friend. If you have intentions of trying to persuade him to leave his wife, then I think you should leave well alone and look for someone who is genuinely single instead. He's happily married,we talked alot obout his DW who I don't know, and his DC. male Maybe he knew you wouldnt like it but needed someone else to speak to if they are as rough as you say. Started Monday at 06:41 PM, By It might even be a good idea to give her enough rope to hang/indict herself. @Tara, "but the men go to meet beautiful women". . If she had 3-4 drinks with them & then came home after 2-3 hours I'd be telling you to power down & remain calm. I told her I don't really like her out drinking with male co-workers but go ahead and do whatever she wants, just be careful. from one night of drinking too much to divorce court. 1) His schedule opens up for you One of the top signs a married man is in love with a single woman is that his schedule opens up for you as if by magic. i just didn't understand why their friendship couldn't either include me (I asked but wasn't welcome to join them), or other mutual friends, I.e. i would try to behave with him in a way that you would if his wife was there. I think, just my opinion, the issue is how you both communicate. If your husband feels the need to go out with his unmarried male friends, 2 to 3 nights a week, then I'd suggest you take him back to his mother, and tell her to finish raising him, because no grown man, or no respectable loving husband, would ever think this was appropriate. Men have plenty of sperm to spread around, and if he's the type to be unfaithful to his wife (whilst not actually being in love with you), then you can guess that there's a chance he's going to be unfaithful to you too. On the one hand, I'm very street smart and I know how to tell if a married man is hitting on me. I recently went for lunch with a new co-worker. It Turned Out To . If you have to go meet the friend for dinner, you should bring your significant other along. And he has picked up on it. No, not OK. For most people I would say it is fine, but GG you have to be kidding to be even thinking about it. But she didn't do that, she turned it all around on him. Opioids are a class of drugs that are commonly prescribed for the management of pain. He tries to get you to drink with him: Everyone knows Alcohol is one of the most crucial things that numb our brains and makes us emotional. Registered Joined Jan 26, 2012 It's a confidence booster Flirting with an unavailable man can make you feel good about yourself without any pressure to. If one of them asks to lunch with you alone, you would tell them no, you have errands to run on lunch, then suggest you do it some other time (and invite others out to lunch at the same time). In recent years, there has been a growing need for safer opioid alternatives. Apparently this neighborlets call him Billhad waited for hours at home for a repairman; finally, the cable company called to announce its representatives impending arrival just as Bill was about to leave on an errand. A man with two kids of his own mused that the most upsetting aspect of his wife going on a business trip with someone else wouldnt be the specter of infidelityit would be the idea of her enjoying someplace luxurious and not covered with kids toys. if its a guys night out and its like 10 buddys sure, if hes going by himself, somethings a foot.Going out with your buddys is homosocial behavior, A typical of men. Registered in England. Finally she calls me back around 9:20 asking me whats up. That seems extreme IMO. Both of you need better boundaries if you want to preserve your marriage. Yet now I look at all my male friends and colleagues and think - is he having an affair? As social media continues to grow in popularity, more and more people are turning to platforms like TikTok for mental health advice. 13 - _l. That summer we'd go out every weekend to the local. answers from Chicago on October 30, 2008. But she says they have invited me in the past and I have turned them down which is true. If I were you called the police already. What might be happening is that our jealous reptile brains havent caught up with new social rules and gender roles. courtney_2001 I went to the bar and took my time ordering my drink while observing them before i decided to interrupt them. So anyways now its about 9am and I have heard nothing back. The couple first met in high school and have been together for years, before officially tying the . and just chill. if they want to spend so much time together alone, they should go out with one another, not him with me! Said one about the idea of a man he didnt know well socializing with his wife: My reaction would be to act like Im cool with it then insult him constantly when hes not around.. But, isn't socializing and schmoozing a part of work life, and a way to get contacts, climb the work ladder, etc? Look, this might sound simple, but it's true. 1 2 Go. Two friends going for a drink, wheres the problem ?? A cheater can still walk away with half, and in some cases allimony. yeah, just don't do anything you wouldn't do in front of his wife, and you're ok. I get pissed and say "whatever.just whatever" and hang up on her because she doesnt seem to understand why this is an issue. An example of data being processed may be a unique identifier stored in a cookie. The main common denominator was that when I didn't respond, they didn't continue the attention. I believe marriages should be respected, treasured and protected. Doing something wrong and then turning it around on someone else is childish. Another married male colleague and I go out quite often for a drink or to run errands or whathaveyou and it couldn't be more platonic, and again, his wife is completely cool with it. It became clear on our email chain, and in my own conversations with a number of friends and colleagues about the subject, that for some (but not all) people (both men and women), the situations described just dont seem quite right. Whether its a little crush or somethings else. I'm going out tomorrow afternoon with a married male coworker - his wife sent me a "hello" as a matter of fact. Get her cell phone records and take a look at the volume of communication between her and this guy. What if your life partner and an acquaintance, sports fans both, watched the Big Game by themselves? It's a variation of understanding you shouldn't ever put yourself in a 'compromising position', which means spending alone time/talk of any kind with a married man. "A woman drinking with a group of . Started February 24, By Put a GPS device in her car. He called and asked her out away from work. Me, her, and her boyfriend. What if you were out of town for the weekend and your spouse and a single friend went to see the buzzy movie du jour? I told her again it was too late for me to come out. Sign You're Dating a Married Man #1: He Wears a Ring Need a sign you're dating a married man? The OP's wife clearly has a distorted view of what a relationship and marriage is. (You won't be happy if your wife is gone every night.) I've been reading this forum with interest lately because of finding out recently about a couple of my married male friends who were caught engaging in affairs. One woman I spoke to, Susan Flemming, 42, a stay-at-home mother of three . She's going out to a club with her single girlfriends to get drunk and dance all night. I think you are doing the right thing by broaching the subject before he goes away, get it all out in the open and try to get to the bottom of it once and for all. Say for instance, if I get off work at 4pm and am going out with friends after, I will say "I will probably be home by 10" and if plans change and I think I'm going to be out later, I will call or text with an updated timeframe. I also let her know that "I am NOT ok with this at all btw". She is still not home. Only fools fall in love with married men. If they do or say something inappropriate, I either laugh it off (if I like them as a person and want to maintain the association) OR I call them on it and make it very clear to them that I did not appreciate what they did/said and I will not put up with it. It will almost always add fuel to the fire. If that were the case, I could easily see where she would get caught up in actually having a social life and enjoying herself on a night out such that one hour became two, and then three, and then six. From here on out, it's about being emotionally and financially protected. One man said the possibility of a straight man thinking about his wife in a sexual way while alone with her made him uneasy even though he wasnt worried about infidelity per se. Again, while I don't necessarily condone the amount of time (8 hours) she spent drinking with these guys, I don't see that infraction alone as necessitating a divorce, without at least a lot more effort to try to work something out. - NO! Photo illustration by Juliana Jimnez. Servedcold, I can definitely see you becoming a lot more enticing to all the females if they thought you made that much everyday. However, Donni mentioned, her 2am is 5pm to most folks. And roles that were pioneering in the baby boom era are now the norm: Since 1967 (to pick one year of noted upheaval), the share of women in the labor force has gone from 39 percent to 58 percent, the share of women 18 to 24 who are enrolled in college has gone from 19 percent to 45 percent, and the average age at which women marry for the first time has gone from 21 to 27. Is it not possible that OP's wife doesn't have many friends? Maybe it is a bonus season, or she just landed a major deal. In theory its fine. I'm [43F]now and my husband is [46M] and we've been married for almost 20 years. nah, Some men do go to the club to dance, listen to music. Nobodies going to win at this back and forth anger, remarks and hurt. Reactions. I've come to a great realization. Also be especially careful if you go on business travel with them, because lots of cheating attempts happen then. 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